We’ve been conditioned to believe that love is
something that finds you. Then the reality hits and you realise that it won’t
find you and that you need to do the work. Doing the work refers to taking the
right steps to increase your chances of meeting new people and recognising
those you are compatible with.
Enjoy being single first
If you want to find love, you need to enjoy
your singlehood first. It’s all about the mindset and the energy. When you are
desperate, you will be perceived as desperate, and it’s the ick factor. On the
other hand, when you find joy in your life, just as it is, you will have a
different energy - one people will love to be surrounded with.
Know your non-negotiables
The next tip on your pursuit of love is knowing your non-negotiables. For example, if you are looking for a single man or a woman to date, that excludes people in committed relationships. Or, if you strongly desire to be a parent one day, don’t date people who don’t want children.